Direct or Indirect?
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Direct or Indirect?
Hey Guys,
what do you guys think, Direct game or Indirect Game?
Direct = Coming out with the truth (that you think she is fucking sexy, and you tell her)
Indirect = ...do you have the time?..
Peacock
what do you guys think, Direct game or Indirect Game?
Direct = Coming out with the truth (that you think she is fucking sexy, and you tell her)
Indirect = ...do you have the time?..
Peacock
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Re: Direct or Indirect?
Eyyy!
Definitely think this is a great topic to chime in on. In my opinion and through my experiences. I've found that direct openers work much better. They get you instant attraction if done right and they get you the furthest into the interaction.
Alot of people complain about the risky aspects of direct, but if you're confident and you know what you're doing. Its harder for women to reject than you think.
Take that as a quick tip and try out some directs today
Keep it cool
The Comedian
Definitely think this is a great topic to chime in on. In my opinion and through my experiences. I've found that direct openers work much better. They get you instant attraction if done right and they get you the furthest into the interaction.
Alot of people complain about the risky aspects of direct, but if you're confident and you know what you're doing. Its harder for women to reject than you think.
Take that as a quick tip and try out some directs today
Keep it cool
The Comedian
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Yeah, that's true.
Another thing to note with direct though, is that you're either all in, or folding the round.
In terms of texas hold'em.. you can't just 'check' or 'call'.. you need to go ALL IN, put EVERYTHING into the direct opener.. unlike indirect lines it cant just be you spitting some words out and hoping for a response.
What you SHOULD do is:
Put emotion in the opener MEAN what you say, SOUND like you mean it, Eye contact, Body language (alpha), calm and slow delivery, make it seem very natural for you, and also DON'T expect a certain response.. infact dont deliver the opener in order to get a response.
A particular opener i'm going to field test tomorrow is this:
"Heyy, i thought you looked soooooo damn cute, so i decided to get to know you. So, tell me something about yourself"
Or some other close variation. This opener is effective in many ways.. for 1) it's direct, and out with the truth, 2) it set me up as the Selector, not the selectee "so i decided to get to know you", 3) it shows that i'm saying "yes, ur cute, but i wanna get to know you before i commit to you and 4) i don't await a response to the opener, it's BOOM straight into "tell me something about yourself". I think this will be highly effective, especially when delivered correctly.
I'll tell you how it goes!
Peacock
Another thing to note with direct though, is that you're either all in, or folding the round.
In terms of texas hold'em.. you can't just 'check' or 'call'.. you need to go ALL IN, put EVERYTHING into the direct opener.. unlike indirect lines it cant just be you spitting some words out and hoping for a response.
What you SHOULD do is:
Put emotion in the opener MEAN what you say, SOUND like you mean it, Eye contact, Body language (alpha), calm and slow delivery, make it seem very natural for you, and also DON'T expect a certain response.. infact dont deliver the opener in order to get a response.
A particular opener i'm going to field test tomorrow is this:
"Heyy, i thought you looked soooooo damn cute, so i decided to get to know you. So, tell me something about yourself"
Or some other close variation. This opener is effective in many ways.. for 1) it's direct, and out with the truth, 2) it set me up as the Selector, not the selectee "so i decided to get to know you", 3) it shows that i'm saying "yes, ur cute, but i wanna get to know you before i commit to you and 4) i don't await a response to the opener, it's BOOM straight into "tell me something about yourself". I think this will be highly effective, especially when delivered correctly.
I'll tell you how it goes!
Peacock
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Re: Direct or Indirect?
Dirrect...Indirect? to be or not to be? lol, i think this just one of "THOSE" questions hey.. i say it all depends, using iderect aproachez of females that have higher social value that yourself could back fire, i advise gaining heaps of that shit be for teling a woman you intentions. more on social value in the apropriate thread
Mr Trixx- Posts : 16
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